I've been playing for several years and only recently have been able to get into the endgame of DDO- however I find that I'm not really ever satisfied with any characters I develop. I keep playing on Lamannia, testing out builds, and I keep thinking, "THIS is the one."
But my reasons for not liking the characters vary- and my interest in them wax and wane so much and I keep wanting to build more and more. I've done several dozen builds and I've never maximized one. I have several characters just ready to TR after dinking around a while at endgame (my first TR, mind you) - but I can never solidify a build on it.
Every single time I hop on Lamannia it's almost as if every build I try is "The one"
Every time I multiclass I feel like I'm compromising myself.
Every time I end up rolling something I always feel I'm playing sub-optimally or I'm missing something from one of my other characters- but every time I try to make a character that does everything I like to have, I feel like it's a compromise and suboptimal.
I love power- but I also love utility. Divine Might feels great and my one multiclass project always feels good to hop on. But I feel dirty for playing it.
I'm not sure how to switch my mindset. I'd really like to complete a character's gear set.