There's not much to say. I wish I could provide some meaningful suggestions on how to improve this game, but I can't. Every update introduces more and more bugs that keep bypassing the safeguards the developers use. Game mechanics tend to be more of a shot in the dark rather than based on accurate data. Development is slower than a zombie affected by a slow spell. The game is more about 'What do you know?' rather than 'Can you survive?', and if theres even one thing you don't know, bam! It's all over. I imagine that, unfortunately, there are a lot of things wrong on the developer side of the game none but them know about that is crippling the game. I do not even know if the playerbase could offer valid suggestions on how to fix them if we knew about it.
But I do know one thing: The longer you play DDO without a extended break, the more burnt you get. And unfortunately, i'm more burned than a charred skeever hide, which is why I have been playing other games far more often than this one. No, you can't have my stuff. Yes, I will return eventually and help out the empty LFG situation. Maybe by the time I start playing the game again there will be new content that I will enjoy playing. But until then, I shall take my break and keep tabs on what's going on with the game. And I suggest that if you haven't already, take a extended DDO break and come back when you feel you are ready.