This is a fun, tough and deadly paladin build I made (with some help from some people)....
I have been playing it a bit (TR'd into it the other day), am sitting at level 17 (almost 18) and it is a very very fun build.
Bladeforged Paladin 9/Fighter 8/Monk 3
36 point build (Recommended)
Str 18+4 tome+7 levels+10 item+1 exc+5 primal scream+15 divine might+2 ship+2 yugo+4 tenser's+2 enh=70
Cha 16+4 tome+10 item+3 insight+1 exc+2 ship+2 enh+2 yugo=40
6-adept of forms
12-master of forms
15-IC:slash (I start at level 15, so doesn't matter that I only get this now)
18-Grandmaster of forms
HPs: 30 improved heroic durability+10 agents of argo favour reward+476 con+100 fury+50 false life+45 greensteel+20 toughness item+10 barb PL+100 paladin levels+80 fighter levels+16 monk levels+80 epic levels=994+28 if I get a +10 con item=1045
Stunning blow DC: 10+30 strength (70 strength=30 mod)+10 item+5 exc combat mastery+6 legendary tactics+2 tactician+3 kensei+3 bladeforged+1 fighter past life=70+4 titan's gloves/bard=74
Primary destiny either LD or Fury, doesn't especially matter, although I prefer fury.
In fury the twists i would use are : legendary tactics/dance of flowers/momentum swing, improved power attack, 15% fort bypass from shadowdancer, standing with stone from GMOF ... it really does not matter.
In LD you could go for something like Dance of flowers/Primal scream/Sense weakness.....
For enhancements, make sure you pick up centred with greatswords/greataxes or whatever, and also get divine might.....thinking of picking up exalted smite .... that ability was awesome in my paladin life.
Have fun pretty people, and kill more stuff!