I've been playing for quite a few years, always content never TRing. I have gotten 12 characters to level 18 playing very casually and then just stopped. I didn't TR, I just stopped. I've finally been able to find a character I'd like to take all the way up there (my amazing Shadar-Kai Rogue) but I don't know how to proceed. I've been playing a lot of Skyrim and kind of avoiding the game because I don't know, I'm a little scarred to push forward. I have the expansion, I can start in my epic destinies, that's not the problem, but I've only barely dipped my toe in the Forgotten Realms and am a bit afraid to start doing these new things. I love my Eberron, and I do not know how to transition over to the expansion and start grinding those quests.
Now there's no groups doing ToD or anything in Eberron though. There's no Epics in Eberron other than Gianthold that people are doing, and I know I can't just stay in Gianthold forever. Being my first time in Epics, I probably want to do a few with a group so I don't get insta-melted. I don't know how to get over this fear and boldy play the game again. I don't want to TR, but I don't know how to move forward.