So, I don't usually post in the forums, in fact the only other time I posted was for a trade, but I enjoy reading the conversations going on. However something happened today that really buffled me and I would like your opinions/advice on it. I was in a Mabar group, the group leader being a person I have played with often before and feel comfortable with. We had this guy that kept coming where we did the killing following us from instance to instance, you know, the really annoying type. Many of us told him in a nice way to please leave this area since he was obviously kilstealing and go at the many other empty reas of the graveyard. He answered with insults. So we were discussing him in the group and people suggested things to do to make him stop, like let him take all the aggro, or go around him and taunt, etc.
I, always in good fun, obvious by the rest of he conversation going on and the way i engaged it, suggestedwe all send him tells saying you suck or go kill yourself or sth like that. The group leader then said no and that might actually lead him to commit suicide. I replied that i seriously doubted that someone would actually take his own life because someone told him in a video game. Then the leader sent me a tell saying I should drop the conversation or leave the group. I was really confused. I didn't want to make anyone feel bad, I was just joking, I mean my proposition on the mean tells although crude was considered funny by the majority of the group.
Now I am just wondering whether the group leader had something like that happed to her in real life and that's why she reacted like this. I hate being a jerk and up to know, I have always tried to be kind and nice to people that are nice themselves and she always was up until this reaction. I don't know, I am just wondering whether I should apologize or just let it be. It's just that this is my kind of humor and I 've made remarks that could be considered crude in her groups or with her present many times, just never touched this particular subject. Anyway, any advice would be appreciated.