I am here to address concerns of people interested in making toons long term....
instead of grinding for items you will most likely get a month of running the same quest or incredible ddo store point buys..
there is a much simpler way planning to make a main toon #1 if you advertise as your main he will need:
3 monk tr damage
3 barbarian tr hp
imagine a ddo main toon having 100 levels just figure on tring first 4 lives get a epic destiny to lev 5 with each tr
the corrosponding one first two lives grandmaster / fury
now from here what ever u build will have significantly higher dmg and higher hp
there will always be better items common sence..
but your tr's will always be good just run the quests with your dream items as much as required to help you tr it may drop u can ask party for it
after these 6 tr which will take about 2-3 months with vip if it takes longer you can buy items xp stuff to help also ask people what quests r best for xp also use the streak bonus the fear of running an elite above level is where the real fun is I h8 seeing people post dont die because that means they are not challenging themselves or there toon no fun in that xp is just that Game xp for your mind and your toon dont argue listen try out things for your self..
dont worry about showing off there will be plenty of time for that after your first 5 t/r's because you yourself will be an epic player and your toon will be a legend.. in ddo xp is everything just like life