On leveling order I think I went 1) Pal, 2-7) Monk, 8-15) Ftr, 16) Pal, 17-20) Ftr. Of course with discussion over Divine Grace, this build may change out paladin levels for Clr or Fvs for access to DM without using a twist. I am still thinking it over and when I get ready to make that change I'll update this thread.
On feats, make sure to double check pre-reqs, I.E. You have PL: Pal as a choice for Level 1 Human Bonus, you must be Level 3+ to select the active PL.