DDO Oracle, the most popular class is Monk at level 25...the class often touted as the most overpowered, the shiradi sorc, (along with the entirety of the rest of the level 25 sorcs) outnumber fighters by only (1k vs 951). In fact, the classes that are often touted as WEAKER casters (the divines, FvS and Clr) beat out Wiz and Sorc.
Just disputing something that you can't brush off with "my experience proves otherwise" even when the experience of almost everyone else says you're incorrect. The closest to correct thing you posted was that good ranged characters were in fact using IPS most of the time, and that hasn't changed. I will say this, though...if you're doing something above EN, your ranged characters are not killing everything before a melee can get to the enemies.
By the way, I didn't remember the website's name either...luckily, a lovely thing called google exists. Open a new tab in your browser, type in something like "DDO server statistics" (my exact search), and you'll be surprised that you actually have a SOURCE that you can CITE...but even the information in this site doesn't prove anything, because it CAN'T figure out the fighting style just by class (there are AA Fighters, melee Divines and Arcanes, and more that doesn't fit into the microcosm of what you're saying).