DDO, I think, is a much better game. It's also unique.
Neverwinter is much more a "free WoW alternative"
I've been feeling like Turbine has been giving me the finger as a premium customer (former subscriber) for a long time now, though. I never intend to enter into another financial transaction with them again.
PWE, I percieve as having a rather mercenary stance from the very beginning. There's no trust to betray there. I might buy something to improve the Neverwinter experiencem with the understanding that I already expect them to be trying to gouge me at every turn.