... there is also "decline"
This is supposed to work on multiple reasons.
First: you dont like that guy, you'd rather slap him in the face than get him in the group-
Second: maybe you want wait for some buddy or guildie to join.
Third: you think that somebody more helpfull could join, maybe to run the tiles puzzle in the Abbot.
More reasons could come up to my mind, but that's not the point. The point actually is that people should learn to PRESS that button, becouse if I get declined I could find something else to do, instead of waiting like a dumb until I get the message of group full.
Futhermore if you want to bother a bit more, you could even spend some words and explain to me on a /tell why you are not getting me in or add some short description on LFM.
I really dont like to stay pending while i could do find something else to do and enjoy it.
Keeping people pending, not caring of their time, is extremely rude (i would say snob, stupid and elitist, but I prefer not to ).
From now on my /squelch policy is changed and I plan to add more meat in the list.
That's it, /whine-off