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    Default Married couple Looking for Guild

    Who we are.

    We're a married couple with a plethora of toons between us from all levels and walks of life. We have roughly 40 characters between the two of us and usually have a pair that can run together fairly smoothly. We've been playing since the game went Free to Play and are both VIPs with the expansion. We prefer to do one and done's on Elite and often two man, but aren't opposed to bringing guildies or pugging when needed. Between the two of us we've done every raid in the game, with only myself never having completed Abbot or Caught in the Web. We both are capable raid healers and keep a level 20 plus healer for high level raids. We would like to use our other toons when possible as we feel variety is the spice of Dungeons and Dragons.

    We're a pretty tight couple although I admit she plays much more than I do. We're both willing to pull our own renown weight and are pretty laid back as far as playing goes as long as we're actually getting something done in the game.

    What we're looking for.

    We'd like a level 70 or above guild. We've both put more than our fair share of time building up smaller and lower level guilds, and while we're good at it, we'd like something more stable we can contribute to and learn from with a higher level. Some kind of organization would be helpful, perhaps a forum or raid calendar so guild events are known ahead of time. We're happy to jump in on things forming last minute, but knowing ahead of time that a VoN or Shroud is going on and what's needed is helpful so we don't run those toons in a PUG and are stuck on timer.

    As far as other members, a small guild is fine, or a large one. We've been in both. What we don't want is lots of drama and would like a little bit of maturity shown to other players and guild members. Just because we're playing a game behind a veil of anonymity doesn't mean we can't be decent to each other. While a challenge is always welcome, we are definitely not permadeath players. We'd like something friendly as we find it's a lot more fun to play with people who enjoy each other's company questing through the insanity.
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    *waves* H'lo guilds. I'm the other half of this couple. So 69 views no replied, are there any guilds out there like we're looking for? *Sad turtle* I just want a home where the people are nice to each other, and don't make being jerks the main culture.
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    Problem that I see is that some of your expectations/wants are not found in a lot of guilds at the same time. Small ones with good friends and the like often don't plan much ahead of time, kinda run more an ad hoc schedule, except for occasional special events. Larger ones with higher activity levels tend to have more focus on achievement than interactions from my experience on cross talk in runs and raids.

    I am sure lots of people would like to be part of that guild you describe, but it takes some work and that is the part of the equation a lot of gamers choose not to make time for.

    Best advice is to keep on running with groups and watching guild names. If you seem to mesh well with some players from certain guilds, ask them if they have openings. I know in the past "good" guilds generally refrained from actively recruiting players from an existing guild (so if you have a guild name over your head you were "off-limits" unless you spoke up). I knew a few people who had bogus self only guilds that readily would drop it when they were offered another option.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TrinityTurtle View Post
    *waves* H'lo guilds. I'm the other half of this couple. So 69 views no replied, are there any guilds out there like we're looking for? *Sad turtle* I just want a home where the people are nice to each other, and don't make being jerks the main culture.
    Heya Turtle, would love to talk more about you guys needing a home. Some of my guildies have ran with you two before and we got along fine. If you see me on in the game, you know who I am, Im mostly on Witchies, might be on my monk for Mabar lol. just look for my guild in the who "The Army of Darkness" (Formerly known as Bleeding Hearts)
    Would love to hear from you guys. Because we are actively looking for new guildies, for our lvl 85 guild :P Yes we have the jaqcuzzi room on the boat lol.

    Look forward to hearing from you, if you dont catch me in game, just send me in game mail to Witchies.

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    /joinchannel Defense

    That will expose you to a lot of players and guilds.


    Army of Darkness will get you in to a lot of high end stuff.


    Shop around and find what works for you.

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    Witchies! I know you! And I also really enjoyed running with you and your fellows, and will definitely look you up this evening. I really enjoyed interacting with your guildies, and since in the cold months when my ability to go outside is restricted, enjoying the people around me is important. And the jacuzzi comment makes me laugh and will get me teased by Ashe, since that is the first thing I head to every time we cruise. And am eyeing the back yard to figure out if I can fit one out there...I'm a bubble addict really!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zenako View Post
    Problem that I see is that some of your expectations/wants are not found in a lot of guilds at the same time.
    Oh, I know. But you never find out until you try asking. And I don't mind if I don't have a lot of options, versus just one good one. Which i seem to have an oppurtunity that I will be looking into. I believe it never hurts to try, and to be honest in what you hope for. If you don't get it, you lost nothing, and if you do, bonus!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TrinityTurtle View Post
    Witchies! I know you! And I also really enjoyed running with you and your fellows, and will definitely look you up this evening. I really enjoyed interacting with your guildies, and since in the cold months when my ability to go outside is restricted, enjoying the people around me is important. And the jacuzzi comment makes me laugh and will get me teased by Ashe, since that is the first thing I head to every time we cruise. And am eyeing the back yard to figure out if I can fit one out there...I'm a bubble addict really!

    Tobril: I am on your channel, and have been pretty much since it was set up. You and I have chatted a time or two on it.

    We will definately have to have a talk tonight.

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    If you guys aren't against off colour jokes and drinking, I'd suggest looking up a guild officer from Lost Legions and running with us a bit to see if you think you'd fit. Amazingly fun guild that can pull its weight in end game stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HGM-Chi View Post
    If you guys aren't against off colour jokes and drinking, I'd suggest looking up a guild officer from Lost Legions and running with us a bit to see if you think you'd fit. Amazingly fun guild that can pull its weight in end game stuff.
    lol True we do have a couple of couples but we are a mature guild we tend to drink, talk off colored and generally just love to have fun and mock each other. We have a solid raid night that most who have ever participated in still talk about What Yog said is true though if your interested its best to find officers to run with we dont bring in anyone who can't handle our kinda fun its safer that way for us and you all
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    So Kalari lives and steped away from the Cupcake Thread a bit this week eh?

    Oh for the days when Guilds had accurate names like BEER and made no bones about it...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zenako View Post
    So Kalari lives and steped away from the Cupcake Thread a bit this week eh?

    Oh for the days when Guilds had accurate names like BEER and made no bones about it...
    Hehe I am back ^_^ I honestly didn't think people would miss my old cantankerous arse lmao
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    Dude dont know who you are and all but for someone glad to be rid of them you sure are stalking their thread. Why don't you let the nice couple move on and stow those sour grapes elsewhere.

    To the OP and your misses hope I am not derailing your thread with this I just think its kinda ridiculous for someone to post such nonsense. When your happy someone left your guild the last thing you should be doing is posting stuff like that in their thread repeatedly it really looks bad for you and not them.

    If you guys are serious about no drama and can handle our kinda tom foolery though look up LL sometimes we post LFM's on Friday nights which is our standard raid night to
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    Thank you Kalari, that was kind of you. I enjoy kind people, and am pleased to meet you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TrinityTurtle View Post
    I just want a home where the people are nice to each other, and don't make being jerks the main culture.
    My guild is not the guild you are looking for.

    Seriously though, it might help if you listed your toons in your signatures, or the original post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TrinityTurtle View Post
    Thank you Kalari, that was kind of you. I enjoy kind people, and am pleased to meet you.
    No problem nice to meet you both I tend to be a little gruff and don't know when not to tell a rude person off but other then that im fairly a gentle soul hope to see you guys now that im back playing
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalari View Post
    Dude dont know who you are and all but for someone glad to be rid of them you sure are stalking their thread. Why don't you let the nice couple move on and stow those sour grapes elsewhere.

    To the OP and your misses hope I am not derailing your thread with this I just think its kinda ridiculous for someone to post such nonsense. When your happy someone left your guild the last thing you should be doing is posting stuff like that in their thread repeatedly it really looks bad for you and not them.

    If you guys are serious about no drama and can handle our kinda tom foolery though look up LL sometimes we post LFM's on Friday nights which is our standard raid night to
    Don't consider it de-railing at all. In fact that pretty much sums up why this thread was created in the first place. Got a lot to process tonight and I have to be up several hours before the sun even thinks of rising, but I'll try and get caught up on this tomorrow.

    Thanks for the replies all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fTdOmen View Post
    My guild is not the guild you are looking for.

    Seriously though, it might help if you listed your toons in your signatures, or the original post.
    Ashe doesn't have his, but my toons are in my signature, and have been for months. But thank you for letting us know, and we shall not consider Endgame. Best of luck to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HGM-Chi View Post
    If you guys aren't against off colour jokes and drinking, I'd suggest looking up a guild officer from Lost Legions and running with us a bit to see if you think you'd fit. Amazingly fun guild that can pull its weight in end game stuff.
    We will also chat with you two tomorrow evening. It's fairly late for us and charredrex's job requires him to be up at insane hours of the morning, so we're getting off for the evening. I don't mind off color jokes and drinking. I don't think I'm ever quite the right color. I am the queen of "But I didn't mean it pervy like that even though I realize what I just said!". LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by TrinityTurtle View Post
    Ashe doesn't have his, but my toons are in my signature, and have been for months. But thank you for letting us know, and we shall not consider Endgame. Best of luck to you.
    I totally missed that sorry ><

    for the most part we get along, but we're fairly douchey about it, it works cause deep down we know the other isn't trying to be offensive, they're expecting to get stick given straight back.

    Personally I love it, but I'd recommend most people use channels whilst they get to know us.

    I'll talk with morf about passing on our channel info if you're interested.

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