You listen/read others opinions, offer counter proposals, and work very well with others to find a solution.
You make great effort to find common ground vs stamping your feet and take things out of context or support hearsay as fact.
I have also been very adamant on my own views, but aren't we all? The real difference is made when one is willing to compromise on those views vs taking a hardline stance that it has to be done this way or nothing for everyone.
I just made an observation of how I have interpreted postings.