If you are having trouble with your un-completionist, I would suggest heading to the DDO store for some handy assistance.
You can get shiny armor. Lotions which can change your hair colour. And Ive even heard, a pet rock. Or maybe it was a roc. Im not sure. But you can teach it tricks. This will distract your foes while you Paladin Smite them.
If you find a Bard who wants to be your friend, he can sing tales of your exploits and also your codpiece. The ladies will love this. The supreme overlord will not, because exploits are bad. And because he is disheartened by his unmentionables.