See a chrono not even half full, and try to join. Doesn't say picky or anything, just 'echrono' with all classes lit.
I wait a minute or so with no response, then I get a tell from the leader asking if I can tank. I tell him I'm not an AC tank, but I can serve as a high-hp high-heal-amp tank.
I get no response for a long while.
(Tell): You tell **********, 'ok it's been like 5 minutes, would you mind hitting accept or decline so I can get on to other things?'
(Tell): You tell **********, 'I don't mean to be rude but I don't like being treated rudely, surely you understand '
Never got a response from those tells either. He probably did both of us a favor and squelched me immediately after.
But MAN do I run into this situation way too often. People need to grow a social backbone and realize that hitting the decline button isn't rude. NOT hitting it is.
It'd be kind of nice if we got auto-declined after a couple minutes. This would give party leaders more of a push to actually make their decisions. Granted its just asking for a program to fix a human interaction error, but it would still be nice.