I have a similar capabilities build but approached it from a tri-class standpoint:
12 Fighter (Kensai 2)/6 Paly (Defender 1)/2 Rogue
Though I've intim'ed the epic DQ a few times with this build (HV boost, house D pots to hit 79). I can also swap to 2 khopeshes, kick the paly 200% threat and hate-tank ToD/VoD. 9 clicks of 1 minute +8 strength is handy too. I was originally Fighter Defender 2/Paly KotC 1... but the reverse(current) build is a lot more fun I think
Skills wise I have the UMD/Seach/Disable/Intim max'ed but not Unlock (about half ranks - which sometimes makes me sad in epic Von2/5).
This was an original Grenfel Batman build so all the AC gear is there... though I'm only hitting 70's or so turtled with a shield (Epic Kundurak).
The saves are nice due to paly high-CHA.
Very similar gear to Lelo's.