Ok so I made my decision.
Dropping the dragonmarks in exchange for the two handed fighting line
SO the feats are now changed in the original post.
He will have a 37 umd without too terribly much work. SO heal scrolls and pots should be fine.
The other side... I plan on sporting Madstone boots all the time as my dex item... my striding item and for the madstone rage str/con bonus and the 20% alacrity boost. Since you cant dragonmark while madstoned... the reasoning is obvious.
Oh and for the comparison to barbs etc.
Using a +3 frost quarterstaff at lvl 7
Outkilled a equivalent level barbarian
Kept up with a lvl 9 fighter and lvl 9 rouge
In tempest normal.
Just got lvl 8 for the acrobat I
Can flip with no buffs WOOT! lol... the attack speed is climbing nicely.